Presence
A personal AI shaped by what you choose to share: memories, stories, personality, relationships, and boundaries.
Love stays
Set up an AI Presence shaped by your memories and relationships, then leave real voices as Time Capsules for future moments.
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DearWith is a private AI Presence app.
DearWith centers on a Presence you set up for yourself: a private AI shaped by your memories and relationship context. You can choose to leave real voice Time Capsules as part of that Presence for future moments. When you're ready, invite the people who matter most into private chatrooms to talk with it.
Memories
Add the stories, personal style, and relationship context that help your Presence respond with care.
Private Chatroom
Only invited people can enter. Each person gets a private space to talk with your Presence.
Time Capsule
You can choose to leave a real voice message inside your Presence, ready to open at the moment you choose.
How it works
Simple steps: From your first memory to a private conversation.
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Set up your Presence
After registration, add your name and a short introduction.
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Shape its memories
Use AI conversation, manual notes, or uploaded chats to shape the stories and relationships it should understand.
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Leave a Time Capsule
You can choose to record a voice message, choose who it is for, and decide when it should appear.
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Invite privately
You can invite specific people and decide who gets access to each private chatroom.
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Start the conversation
The invited person can chat privately with your Presence, and Time Capsules can open at the right moment.
Memories
Memories shape how your Presence understands you.
DearWith helps organize what your Presence should carry: who you are, how you tend to speak, the people who matter to you, and the stories, boundaries, and context behind each relationship.
Memory inputs
Ways to add and maintain memories
Talk it out with AI
Tell DearWith who you are, what you care about, who the other person is to you, and the stories you share.
Manage memories manually
Add, edit, confirm, or remove key facts and stories so your Presence stays intentional and under your control.
Upload chats for structure
With your permission, DearWith can help turn conversation history into relationship context, shared memories, and recurring themes.
Memory categories
What your Presence can remember.
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About you
Identity, personality, interests, life events, stories, values, and the way you tend to speak.
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About them
Who each invited person is, what they mean to you, and what your Presence should understand about them.
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About the relationship
Shared history, boundaries, conversation style, and the things you may want your Presence to say later.
Time Capsule
Time Capsule: So love is there when it matters.
A Time Capsule lets you place a real voice message inside your Presence, so someone you choose can receive it later on a date you set, or when a conversation reaches the right moment.
- Your original voice message, recorded by you, stays intact inside your Presence.
- Leave it for one person, or save it first and choose the recipient later.
- Set when it appears: on a date, or when a conversation reaches the moment you choose.
- You stay in control: delete it or revoke access, and future delivery stops.
Privacy
Privacy first: Clear boundaries by design.
Invite-only private chatrooms
No public search or stranger discovery. Each invited person's conversation with your Presence is visible only to that person, and you control the Memories, Time Capsules, edits, deletion, and access permissions connected to your Presence.
No training or ad targeting
DearWith does not sell personal information, use private content for ad targeting, or use Presence settings, Memories, uploads, Time Capsules, or private chats to train AI models.
Limited human access
Private conversations and user content are not routinely read by DearWith personnel. Limited access may occur only for authorized support, security, legal, abuse-prevention, safety, or dispute reasons.
Risk-based safety checks
DearWith may use automated systems to identify serious safety, abuse, or rights risks. Any necessary human-assisted review follows least-necessary access controls.
FAQ
FAQ: What to know before you begin.
Purpose and fit
What is DearWith trying to help with?
Some things are hard to say in the moment, and sometimes we cannot be there when someone needs us. DearWith helps you preserve memory, care, and real words for the people who matter, across distance, time, and future moments you choose.
Who is DearWith for?
DearWith is for people who want to leave a thoughtful presence for someone important: family living far away, a partner, a close friend, a child growing up, someone entering a new life stage, or someone who may need your words later. It can also support memorial contexts, but it is not limited to them.
How should I think about a Presence?
A Presence is a way to carry forward the memories, voice, and relationship context you choose to preserve. It is not the real person and cannot replace being there in person; it is shaped by care, consent, privacy, and the creator's choices over time.
Product basics
What is a Presence?
A Presence is a personal AI experience you create and shape with memories, relationship context, and boundaries you choose to add. It is not a live person; it is an AI Presence built from what you confirm.
How do I add and manage Memories?
Memories are the details, stories, and relationship context that shape your Presence. You can add them by talking with AI, writing or editing them manually, or uploading supported conversation history for DearWith to help organize. You stay in control of what gets saved, edited, or removed.
What is a Time Capsule?
A Time Capsule is a real voice message you leave inside your Presence for someone you choose. It can appear later on a date you set, or when a conversation reaches the context you choose.
Access and privacy
Who can access my Presence?
Only people you explicitly invite and authorize. If access is revoked, that person may lose future access to the Presence, new AI replies, and eligible Time Capsules.
Can people search for my Presence?
No. DearWith is not a public social network. There is no public search, follower system, social feed, or stranger discovery for private Presences.
Does DearWith use my content to train AI models?
No. DearWith does not use personal data, Presence settings, Memories, uploads, Time Capsules, private conversations, or chat content to train AI models.
How does DearWith protect my privacy and personal information?
DearWith is designed around data minimization, user control, and limited access. Private conversations and user content are not routinely read by DearWith personnel. DearWith does not sell personal information or use private content for ad targeting. Limited access may occur only for authorized support, security, legal, abuse-prevention, safety, or dispute reasons.
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If someone came to mind while reading this, DearWith is a place to begin.
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